No invitation yet.

One of our family members is getting married this summer. Everyone in the family knows the month the wedding will occur but not the date. It seems crazy to me that they haven't mailed out invitations yet. How on earth are we supposed to make arrangements for stuff like a tuxedo shirt and dress if we don't know the exact date. It is almost as if the couple expect everyone to drop everything at the last minute and show up for the wedding with little to no notice. Maybe the truth is that everyone else has already received an invitation and we really aren't invited after all. Not that this would bother me because it is less money we have to spend on a gift and whatnot.